What releasing our lack mentality means for our loving relationships and prosperous bank accounts
It is no secret that what we attract is that which we focus on…. that which we are a vibrational match for…
So, living in our abundance and releasing our lack mentality makes us feel better and it works in our favor?
Yes!
By focusing on what we don’t have….we will attract more of the same…
And if we are to be most truthful with ourselves….we have ALOT to be thankful for…
We were born into abundance…. God gave us everything we need and we lost ourselves somewhere along the way…
All the times we heard “NO” and “Don’t” and “Better do this” and “Better do that”….
We have forgotten our abundance…and latched onto a feeling of without…. a feeling of lack…
We have forgotten our divinity and actually make excuses for the opposite….we actually justify the feeling of lack we feel about ourselves…by reminding ourselves about the lack we see in our external world…
These things we think we don’t have in our external world…. is actually a matter of perception…
And a choice…
And the crappy feelings of lack we feel about ourselves… is actually not real either…
We are fully abundant and are made in the image of God…. we are a child of God and are “powerful beyond measure”…. -Marianne Williamson
Why a prosperous bank account?
I really say this to get our attention… Money is a huge thing for many people….We need money to live… we also need love and support….
Here’s the kicker…. we must be that which we want to attract more of….
We must remember the love and support within ourselves….and our external circumstances will reinforce our internal condition…and thoughts about ourselves…
Money is no different… and very interesting to me….
Some people have loads of money….and they are not happy…
Others have little money in comparison….and they are blissfully happy…
Is it because money is not important to them?
Maybe…
Is it because they think they don’t need or want anymore of it…? Do they think they are only capable of earning and keeping a certain amount of money and they will never obtain anything more?
Maybe…
Many will say that money doesn’t buy happiness…
Perhaps we believe this so much, that we actually detract money to us, because we first and foremost want to be happy and do not equate happiness with money…
So, the first step….is happiness…
Why lack pisses me off
This statement is counter intuitive to my mission…
However…
When I see people acting so unconsciously in such a negative way….like Black Friday zombieland shopping….I feel immense pain…
For their ignorance…
And lack of care for anything…
And with anything…
This triggers thoughts of my own lack mentality…
That which we see in others is a reflection of ourselves…
I am reminded of the lack mentality I carry in my own life…
I feel guilt and shame….and sadness….for having these feelings…
And I’m reminded how important it is to remember GRATITUDE…
One way to counter these negative thoughts…is to remember how grateful I am….
For the abundance I have….all around me…
And lack is only a matter of perception…
And it’s my choice to change mine….
“Love Actually…is…all around us…”
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